Who I Am

Short and simple: I travelled the world.    Fell in love with a fighter pilot, and then he died on me…after he explicitly promised me he wouldn’t.

He owes me a very long and serious conversation one day in the eternal.

Until then…these are the stories of coping with his loss and all that came and is coming after.


Though I started this page as a place to house my essays, in recent months, I decided to place some of my poems and shorter pieces here as well: The Poems

You can follow me on Instagram @grounselingguide

Other essays I’ve written from my earlier days: Take Up Space